October 14th Wednesday.

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Couldn't get the cat (Sol) to go in the cat carrier this morning, he went feral again. My friend came to try and he attacked her. The vets suggested leaving him today and they've booked him in for Friday, so we'll try again. They are prescribing sedation medication for me to collect tomorrow to sedate him before he goes. You really dont understand how scared I am of this cat. I love him to bits when hes being nice, but when he changes, its horrible. My friend said shes had cats all her life and shes never seen a cat be the way my cat is. Its scary.
Went to watch Jesse in his assembly this morning. Bloody love that little boy is do. Hes gone Fusion tonight, its a youth club at school, 5-7 every Wednesday. He loves it. Hes becoming so independent, hes not my baby anymore. Time is a thief. The love i have for my 4 boys is immense, breaks my heart that one of my children are dead. 
You never think it would happen to you, until it does and your whole world crumbles.
Damian is coming watch Jesse's assembly tomorrow, they do it for 2 days which is good so that parents can come and other relatives. Jesse will love seeing Damian there in the morning. He loves him so much. He thinks Damian is his dad and at some point in his life ive got to break it to him that hes not biologically his father. Dont know how you tell a child that his real father is a waste of oxygen!
Anyway, im doing ok, having a few better days and im so thankful. Unfortunately, we know they dont last and the suicidal thoughts will be back, but for now im doing ok.
Its going dark now which means when Fusion finishes in half an hour Jesse has got to come back in the dark on his bike. Thank god ive got a tracker on his phone. Luckily the school is only a few streets away, so it doesnt take him long to get home.
Made a chilli for tea, Jensens choice, Jay-Dees favourite meal. Its always a winner in our house chilli is. Everyone loves it. Jesse's is ready for when he gets home.
Jasper is here, weve got the fire on so its all cosy. Still watching The Mentalist on Netflix, im hooked on it haha.
And thats my day..

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