July 20th Sunday. Jensens first fight.

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What an amazing night i had last night watching all the boxing and MMA fighters. It was the first time in years I've got dressed up for a night out. I felt lovely. I was nervous about going because of my anxiety, but I was fine once I was there. I saw a few people I knew too. Watching Jensens fight my hands were shaking with nerves for him. It was hard to watch your son fighting, but he only went and bloody won!! I couldn't be prouder and I know Jay-Dee would of been there watching him. I feel so proud today. Jensen worked really hard for last night's fight and his hard work paid off and he won. I'm the proudest mum today. Not going lie, I feel shattered this morning, think its because I took my night time medication alot later than usual so im still tired. I'm feeling ok, gutted Jay-Dee wasn't there last night, but im sure he would of been watching over his brother from where ever he is. My dad would of been there too if he was alive, I just know they're both proud of Jensen just as much as I am. I miss them both so much, I know I say it everyday, but I really miss them so much. Anyway, back to reality, I've got my washer on doing some washing. Would of pegged it all out but its raining. Typical with it being the holidays. I'll post some pics from last night..

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