Veggie.ChristmasFilm.IntrusiveThoughts.

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 Not sure I've blogged about this before, but roughly 7 months ago I went off meat. I can't bring myself to eat it anymore, how strange. I'm putting it down to cancer forcing me through the menopause and it has completely changed not only what I eat but me as a person. I'll still cook meat for the children and if I am honest, I have never been a big meat lover. I'll buy veggie sausages before meat ones because personally I love the taste. So, it's not been a massive change really except for the fact now I will point blank refuse to eat meat if offered or cooked for me. My body my choice.

Going go off track slightly, as you may have already noticed I have a habit of going slightly off track haha..

Bet I have mentioned this film before 'Last Christmas' with Emilia Clarke in, think it has been the last 3 years I have watched it over and over, it is my favourite film ever, even got the soundtrack on Spotify, who doesn't love a bit of George Michael. There's just something about this film that I really love, I also love Emilia's smile, there's just something warming about it.

Anyway, that is all, goodbye. xxx


Forgot to mention I envisioned myself today whilst stirring cheese sauce into pasta and watching it bubble faster as I stirred, it was as if the bubbles were popping at super speed, I then envisioned myself stirring it with my hands.

Anyway, I didn't and thought I'd share it with whoever reads my blogs.

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