March 26th 2024

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2020 my dad died of cancer aged 55 years
2021 I had cancer
2022 the year I went sober

I'm still sober and I'm still alive
How, I don't know.
I still don't know how I make it through each day.
My will to live comes from my children.
I just couldn't bare my children morning over my death like I am the death of my father.
Do you ever really heal when you lose a parent.
My whole life turned upside down and the only positive that has come from my father's passing , is me getting sober.
If you're on this sober journey too, a massive well done because I know first hand that it isn't easy.
I've been sober over 2 years and I still crave alcohol, I just don't give into temptation. 
I've become so numb to life, my days just roll into one.
I'm not thriving, I'm simply just surviving.

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